The Risky Business!
I am too busy with work, I am happy being single, I have too many options to pick from or I have none that meets my standard, I don’t want to get hurt again, Love and relationships are not really my thing, and blah blah blah, the list goes on. It’s like a usual excuse for all of us to explain our commitment issues.
However, I believe that deep down, underneath the rocks and stones all piled up in our hearts, all of us are looking for love one way or another. It’s hard to accept the fact that we do need that feeling, that person besides your friends and your family to connect with, so we deny! Honestly, it is horrifying to us to actually open up and ‘feel.’ I know I am one of them!
Always on the safe side, playing the unemotional role in life, everything is cool, everything is chilled, because that makes me feel like I’m in comfort zone and no one can get to me, no complications with another person, and so on.
Lately, I have been thinking about how we play games just to make ourselves feel like we are in control, admit it, it feels good to be in control. Although, your victim is good to you, you’re still acting selfishly, just so we can feel safe, after all for people like us, love, relationships, lust, the whole scenario scares us, emotionally.
I wish there was a solution to our confusion but the truth is, each and everyone of us, will be enlightened sooner or later and I am sure when the time is right, all this fear that we have will magically disappears.
Tags: bangkok, commitment, fear, life, love, relationships, sabina, single
September 6th, 2008 at 6:28 am
The center of the world is you, you can show that to the world, you must believe it too. Then there is no reason to fear…
Ha ha ha, try to sound all philosophical, but looks like it’s not working (I need my best friend JWB!!!)
September 6th, 2008 at 6:48 am
Ofcourse we’re all looking for love.
To have love, to give love, to get back even more… it’s something essential for people with a heart u know.
But… maybe instead of looking for love, just let it be.. don’t look for it, just welcome it if it should touch you. Live on with your life, be YOU.
What comes to you when you least expect - those are one of the best moments in one’s lifetime =)
September 6th, 2008 at 7:12 am
Never let bad past experience haunts you, there are more things in life.
If you cannot get respect from your man then its not worth it.
In the end everyone has “the one” made for themselves. The question is if yours is a man or woman?
If a man, will he be “the one”?
If a woman, then you probably have your best girl friend.
If you trust then you will love again.