Destined by You
We’ve all heard about how each and everyone of us can create our own destiny, you draw it, picture it, and have it. A lot of us mistaken the fact that if you ‘think’ positive you will get what you want but it’s not only ‘thinking’ positive that’s going to bring about what you want.
It’s how positive you feel combine with your imagination of the things that you want, together it will attract what you want. Positive affirmations can be one of the first tool you might want to use when you’re mastering yourself as a magnet.
If you find yourself saying, “I suck at relationships,” “I hate my work, it’s not me,” “I can’t do what you are doing,” then obviously your oh-so-positive thoughts or nature is not as effective as it can be.
It’s time for you to start affirming to yourself that you can, you will, you are on the way, you are getting what you want, and you deserve what you want. How about you change just little of your daily dialogues from “I can’t,” to “I can do this, it’s pretty damn easy,”"I am motivated and I believe in myself, I am moving towards my goal.”
Or how about when someone ask you how your day is, instead of saying all the negative things about your life and affirming it to the universe that your day just sucks, look on the bright side and say, “It’s great,” but don’t just force yourself to say it, the key is you have to FEEL it!
To make it easier for some of us to ‘feel’ the feeling of having the things you want right now, maybe we should do whatever we would do once we have that thing, that life, that whatever, that we want.
As for me, I have a photoshop image of my future ‘best-selling’ book along with other stuff like my M3 cars, add a music to that and ta-dah, I can already feel like they are mine!
Tags: affirmation, attitude, life, lifestyle, living, positive, the secret
September 14th, 2008 at 3:34 am
ask 10 men, 9(1/2) would say they want their woman unexposed.
Da stuff that u r doing to yourself. Taking pics in da pool n post it on da web. Those actions r not suitable in Asian Countries.
U R popular in doing those things. BUT do u want a man just to “look” “stare” at u, or u want a relationship, love?
THERE R GALS U JUST WANT TO ****
THERE R GALS U JUST WANT TO KNOW
AND
THERE R GALS U WANT TO MAKE A LIFE PARTNER
Characteristics of these girls are different.
Before anything, before too late. Think again properly on what you are doing to yourself.
I have been living for 35 years, I HAVE SEEN PEOPLE WHO DID THE EXACT SAME THING LIKE U, they are almost 40 now, never got married, man wants just to look at them, **** them, but no serious relationship.
As an acquaintance, I’d hate to see you to be like them. You are half way there, you can still make a correct move.
Your friends are engaged, and married, don’t think that they will care about what is going to happen to you. Don’t be used, think for yourself. If you want to be popular, be remembered, as least be remembered for the good things you do. Not your stupidity, and how you were ******
September 14th, 2008 at 3:35 am
I WOULD HATE TO SAY “I TOLD YOU SO”
September 14th, 2008 at 3:48 pm
Hope you got my goodwill message. Since you have deleted them
September 15th, 2008 at 5:52 am
Just because a woman knows what she wants and how to live the life, it doesn’t make her any less desirable. Maybe “GooRoo” is just a little too “old” to understand that we’re not living in the old times.
Tell me a solid difference between ..ahem.. “fun” girls taking sexy pictures on a night out, and Sabina’s genuinely cute picture in a pool that is not as ‘exposed’ as you think it is.
Maybe she won’t get the typical “engaged, married next year” life, but take a look at this girl and ask yourself if she’s a true person. Because she is, and she’s happy with her young life.
It’s about getting what you want, and honestly there’s not a soul she’s harming.
Just because we’re Indians or Asian, it doesn’t make us any less “women”.
Cheers to being YOU, Sabina =)
September 15th, 2008 at 6:58 am
Everything “GuRoo” wrote can be summed up into 3 words: generalizations, assumptions, and stereotype. Should these 3 words be the basis for someone to alter their lifestyle? I truly hope not.
We’re living in a world where there are a set of expectations of how women “should” act. Since historical times, women have been portrayed in all mediums (Literature, TV, etc) as either 1) a goody-two-shoes, 2) a seductive vixin. Who made up these categories? Men, of course. Why? Because they were threatened. They wanted women to be submissive, subduded, opinion-less, and education-less. So that they could be in charge and feed their own ego.
We’re now living in a more modern world, which is why a message like this saddens me. Because there are still so many people who have this mindset about women. When men party, oh it’s normal. When women party, oh my godd she’s evil!! And same goes with each and every activity.
Hence, when a woman starts to become successful, like Sabina, she is perceived in a negative way, because she is doing something “out of the ordinary”. She is refusing to be submissive, and refusing to conform to the norms of society, and refusing to be categorized into MALE STANDARDS. She is an inspiration to us women, and I truly respect her for everything she is.
September 15th, 2008 at 8:12 am
Agree with Nimmy and Anjana
Hi Gooroo, should a 35 have some other productive things to do rather than surfing a 23’s homepage and giving her judgements. i believe Sabina knows what she is doing. Im sorry, i dont want to judge you either, so please mind your content next time if you REALLY want to convey your goodwill.
September 15th, 2008 at 10:23 am
Wow this is like the another version of Nikorn.I remember all these feelings and it’s called “jealiousy” but you’re doing great Sabina just like always besure to ignore these hater and rock on,big cheerz to you na ka.