“Men, you know how they are,” is one of my usual lines I use with my friends, not only to the girls but to the guys as well. By that I mean, I am not surprised if one of my girlfriends discover the fact that her boyfriend and her ex boyfriend were in the same bedroom doing a different girl next to each other, foursome, you may call it?
Or the fact that she happens to be dating this oh-so-very-nice guy only to find out that he has a 15 year-old girlfriend Read more…
I am too busy with work, I am happy being single, I have too many options to pick from or I have none that meets my standard, I don’t want to get hurt again, Love and relationships are not really my thing, and blah blah blah, the list goes on. It’s like a usual excuse for all of us to explain our commitment issues.
However, I believe that deep down, underneath the rocks and stones all piled up in our hearts, all of us are looking for love one way or another. Read more…
Being a single and fabulous chick in Bangkok is not an easy task, besides running into your married girlfriends, relatives, random folks on the street, whom by the way I love very much, they comes with a package.
It’s what I would like to call, the ‘5W’s Date’ package, from who are you dating to why are you single, to where are you going to meet that ‘one’, you know the one! And here I am thinking to myself, why would I, a 23-year-old practically married to my blog and career along with my 200 remarkable costly shoes want to settle for anything less than my standard.
Infact, I wonder why single girls and guys don’t turn around and ask the taken people, why they are taken? Oh well, I guess the cliche answer would be because we are oh-so-in-love, not that I’m against love or men, don’t get me wrong, but sometimes, somewhere, there are people like me, who happens to love ‘me’ more to settle down.
Besides, us single people have plenty of fish to pick from, I suppose it’s the enjoyment of looking inside that tank for more, and more, and more, and well you get the picture.
Perfect Saturday afternoon with your girlfriends, we’re talking, shopping, eating Sundae ice-cream, and junk food, catching up, just what you needed, until your ex-boyfriend came along doing the same thing with his crew. See, the way I see it, running into your ex- is never easy, it’s rather weird, and it doesn’t even matter if you’re the dumper or the dumpee. For a moment, when you see his face, there’s a flash back of the routine that you two had, the Suki deal every Sunday or a family dinner with his parents, or even grocery shopping! It’s all different now, Read more…
